when people call me honey..

it makes me feel all warm inside.

even if it's the lady behind the financial aid desk at school.

or the girl who works there, but doesn't look many years older than me.

or my friend's mom when i call her house.

BUT..

i do not like it when asian ladies who cut my hair call me honey. i do not know why, but when they say it it sounds like they're belittling me.

i'm insecure like that, yo.